tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42908219798513727292024-03-05T08:00:24.465-08:00A Beautiful Message“Invite to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided.” (Quran, an-Nahl: 125)Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-71809610719388732772014-01-20T12:21:00.001-08:002014-01-20T12:23:36.307-08:00The Convivencia<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><a href="http://www.theconvivencia.com/">The Convivencia</a> is a small organisation that undertakes dawah activity in various parts of Africa:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You can learn more at the <a href="http://www.theconvivencia.com/">website</a> or donate <a href="http://www.theconvivencia.com/donate/">here</a>.</span>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-81189216700211976842013-07-19T17:37:00.000-07:002013-07-19T17:37:29.283-07:00Islam and Latina Converts<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> World (18 July 2013) reports on the growing proportion of Latina women turning to Islam:</span><br />
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Baihaqi reported on the authority of Salman Al-Farsi (Radhi Allah ‘Anh) that Prophet (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasalaam) delivered a sermon on the last day of the month of Sha’ban. In it he (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasalaam) said,<br />
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“O People! The month of Allah (Ramadan) has come with its mercies, blessings and forgivenesses. Allah has decreed this month the best of all months. The days of this month are the best among the days and the nights are the best among the nights and the hours during Ramadan are the best among the hours. This is a month in which you have been invited by Him (to fast and pray). Allah has honoured you in it. In every breath you take is a reward of Allah, your sleep is worship, your good deeds are accepted and your invocations are answered.<br />
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Therefore, you must invoke your Lord in all earnestness with hearts free from sin and evil, and pray that Allah may help you to keep fast, and to recite the Holy Qur’an. Indeed!, miserable is the one who is deprived of Allah’s forgiveness in this great month. While fasting remember the hunger and thirst on the Day of Judgement. Give alms to the poor and needy. Pay respect to your elders, have sympathy for your youngsters and be kind towards your relatives and kinsmen. Guard your tongue against unworthy words, and your eyes from scenes that are not worth seeing (forbidden) and your ears from sounds that should not be heard.<br />
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Be kind to orphans so that if your children may become orphans they will also be treated with kindness. Do repent to Allah for your sins and supplicate with raised hands at the times of prayer as these are the best times, during which Allah Almighty looks at His servants with mercy. Allah Answers if they supplicate, Responds if they call, Grants if He is asked, and Accepts if they entreat. O people! you have made your conscience the slave of your desires.<br />
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Make it free by invoking Allah for forgiveness. Your back may break from the heavy load of your sins, so prostrate yourself before Allah for long intervals, and make this load lighter. Understand fully that Allah has promised in His Honour and Majesty that, people who perform salat and sajda (prostration) will be guarded from Hell-fire on the Day of Judgement.<br />
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O people!, if anyone amongst you arranges for iftar (meal at sunset) for any believer, Allah will reward him as if he had freed a slave, and Allah will forgive him his sins. A companion asked: “but not all of us have the means to do so” The Prophet (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wasalaam) replied: Keep yourself away from Hell-fire though it may consist of half a date or even some water if you have nothing else.<br />
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O people!, anyone who during this month cultivates good manners, will walk over the Sirat (bridge to Paradise) on the day when feet will tend to slip. For anyone who during this month eases the workload of his servants, Allah will make easy his accounting, and for anyone who doesn’t hurt others during this month, Allah will safeguard him from His Wrath on the Day of Judgement. Anyone who respects and treats an orphan with kindness during this month, Allah shall look at him with kindness on that Day. Anyone who treats his kinsmen well during this month, Allah will bestow His Mercy on him on that Day, while anyone who mistreats his kinsmen during this month, Allah will keep away from His Mercy.<br />
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Whomever offers the recommended prayers during this month, Allah will save him from Hell, and whomever observes his obligations during this month, his reward will be seventy times the reward during other months. Whomever repeatedly invokes Allah’s blessings on me, Allah will keep his scale of good deeds heavy, while the scales of others will be tending to lightness. Whomever recites during this month an ayat (verse) of the Holy Qur’an, will get the reward of reciting the whole Qur’an in other months.<br />
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O people!, the gates of Paradise remain open during this month. Pray to your Lord that they may not be closed for you. While the gates of Hell are closed, pray to your Lord that they never open for you. Satan has been chained, invoke your Lord not to let him dominate you.”<br />
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Ali ibn Talib (Radhi Allah ‘Anh) said: “I asked, ‘O messenger of Allah, what are the best deeds during this month’?” ‘He replied: ‘O Abu-Hassan, the best of deeds during this month is to be far from what Allah has forbidden’.”Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-20646047479486775732012-02-04T08:01:00.001-08:002012-06-14T14:30:01.504-07:00Malcolm X: I am and Always Will Be a Muslim. My Religion is Islam."I am not a racist in any form whatsoever. I don't believe in any form of discrimination or segregation. I believe in Islam. I am a Muslim and there is nothing wrong with being a Muslim, nothing wrong with the religion of Islam. It just teaches us to believe in Allah as the God. Those of you who are Christian probably believe in the same God, because I think you believe in the God Who created the universe. That's the One we believe in, the One Who created universe--the only difference being you call Him God and we call Him Allah. The Jews call Him Jehovah. If you could understand Hebrew, you would probably call Him Jehovah too. If you could understand Arabic, you would probably call Him Allah...."<br /><br />- Malcolm XHappy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-83556954577568984352011-12-10T09:58:00.000-08:002011-12-10T10:00:49.045-08:00Hadith on Dawah: Bukhari 2783/Muslim 2406The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said to ‘Ali (RA):<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">“If Allah guides a person through you, it is better for you than all that is on the earth.” </span><br /><br />Bukhari No. 2783 & Muslim No. 2406)Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-47627066890254121922011-11-24T13:31:00.000-08:002011-11-24T13:32:55.202-08:00Journey to Islam: Latino Muslims Share Their StoryBrother Mujahid Fletcher & Brother Isa Parada share their stories.<br />
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<em>Fast forward eighteen years and here I am, older, maybe wiser, maybe not, married for twelve years with five kids, living in suburbia and trying to help others have a bit of an easier time traveling the path I and so many other reverts have trod. I’ve been through the many phases of Islam. The “SuperConvertitis” phase, where I tried to out Islam everyone else. The burnout phase, where I just wanted to not think about Islam at all, the barely doing the minimum phase where only guilt and fear of Hellfire kept me going, and the phase I’m in now. It’s kind of a comfortable phase. I’m steadfast in my faith, I know where my weaknesses are and I don’t beat myself up for them anymore, and I try to maximize my strong points. I’m not a “haraam alaik-er” and I’m not so easygoing that I’ll simply smile and nod if I see a Muslim eating a ham sandwich and drinking a beer outside the masjid on Friday. I think I’ve found my niche as a Muslim and it is in writing and trying to be an uplifting presence – not a role model, I’m not good enough for that – for my brothers and sisters in Islam. I also make it a point to occasionally poke the hornet’s nest of problems in the Ummah so that people realize that we have to be more proactive in living and teaching Islam. I’m not Super Muslimah, and I’m okay with that.</em><br />
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<em>I just read on one of my Facebook groups that one of our sisters has left Islam, and it got me to thinking. Here I am, Muslim for eighteen years, well settled in my faith, knowledgeable to a degree, not prone to histrionics. What could motivate a person, once guided, to abandon the faith? What could make me consider leaving Islam, even for a moment?</em><br />
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Read the original post and her answer to the questions she asks<a href="http://www.patheos.com/blogs/muslimahinprogress/2011/09/why-would-i-leave-islam.html"> here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-18624872363980035722011-11-08T13:55:00.000-08:002011-11-08T13:55:04.531-08:00Women & Islam: The Rise and Rise of the Convert in BritainThe Independent (6th November 2011) reports on a new study by Swansea University for Faith Matters called "A Minority Within a Minority" which reports on reverts to Islam in the UK:<br />
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The original research report can be found <a href="http://faith-matters.org/images/stories/fm-reports/a-minority-within-a-minority-a-report-on-converts-to-islam-in-the-uk.pdf">here</a> (PDF).<br />
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“Never have I witnessed such sincere hospitality and overwhelming spirit of true brotherhood as is practiced by people of all colors and races here in this ancient Holy Land, the home of Abraham, Muhammad and all the other Prophets of the Holy Scriptures. For the past week, I have been utterly speechless and spellbound by the graciousness I see displayed all around me by people of all colors.<br />
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“I have been blessed to visit the Holy City of Mecca, I have made my seven circuits around the Ka’ba, led by a young Mutawaf named Muhammad, I drank water from the well of the Zam Zam. I ran seven times back and forth between the hills of Mt. Al-Safa and Al Marwah. I have prayed in the ancient city of Mina, and I have prayed on Mt. Arafat.<br />
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“There were tens of thousands of pilgrims, from all over the world. They were of all colors, from blue-eyed blondes to black-skinned Africans. But we were all participating in the same ritual, displaying a spirit of unity and brotherhood that my experiences in America had led me to believe never could exist between the white and non-white.<br />
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“America needs to understand Islam, because this is the one religion that erases from its society the race problem. Throughout my travels in the Muslim world, I have met, talked to, and even eaten with people who in America would have been considered white - but the white attitude was removed from their minds by the religion of Islam. I have never before seen sincere and true brotherhood practiced by all colors together, irrespective of their color.<br />
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“During the past eleven days here in the Muslim world, I have eaten from the same plate, drunk from the same glass, and slept on the same rug - while praying to the same God - with fellow Muslims, whose eyes were the bluest of blue, whose hair was the blondest of blond, and whose skin was the whitest of white. And in the words and in the deeds of the white Muslims, I felt the same sincerity that I felt among the black African Muslims of Nigeria, Sudan and Ghana.<br />
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“We were truly all the same (brothers) - because their belief in one God had removed the white from their minds, the white from their behavior, and the white from their attitude.<br />
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“I could see from this, that perhaps if white Americans could accept the Oneness of God, then perhaps, too, they could accept in reality the Oneness of Man - and cease to measure, and hinder, and harm others in terms of their ‘differences’ in color.<br />
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“With racism plaguing America like an incurable cancer, the so-called ‘Christian’ white American heart should be more receptive to a proven solution to such a destructive problem. Perhaps it could be in time to save America from imminent disaster - the same destruction brought upon Germany by racism that eventually destroyed the Germans themselves.<br />
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“Each hour here in the Holy Land enables me to have greater spiritual insights into what is happening in America between black and white. The American Negro never can be blamed for his racial animosities - he is only reacting to four hundred years of the conscious racism of the American whites. But as racism leads America up the suicide path, I do believe, from the experiences that I have had with them, that the whites of the younger generation, in the colleges and universities, will see the handwriting on the walls and many of them will turn to the spiritual path of truth - the only way left to America to ward off the disaster that racism inevitably must lead to.<br />
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“Never have I been so highly honored. Never have I been made to feel more humble and unworthy. Who would believe the blessings that have been heaped upon an American Negro? A few nights ago, a man who would be called in America a white man, a United Nations diplomat, an ambassador, a companion of kings, gave me his hotel suite, his bed. Never would I have even thought of dreaming that I would ever be a recipient of such honors - honors that in America would be bestowed upon a King - not a Negro.<br />
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(Source: <a href="http://islamreligion.com/">Islamreligion.com</a>)Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-71719218373173731302011-08-07T01:24:00.000-07:002011-08-07T01:32:36.791-07:00Giving Dawah to our Japanese Friends During Ramadan<a href="http://www.japanesemuslims.com/">Japanese Muslims</a> has an article that gives some useful advice regarding dawah in Japan which is applicable to any society where atheism is strongly pursued:<br />
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<em>"One way we can spread the message of Islam in a soft way is to get involved in our community wherever we live, in a positive way. The community does not need to be an Islamic community only. We can help the poor and the needy, the old and the orphan and the homeless and the people in suffering and the list goes on and on. These rightful acts of ours will Inshallah change the way we are looked by the non-Muslim community members around us.</em><br />
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<em> </em><em>This becomes especially important in an atheist society like Japan where a certain stigma is involved in religious discussions. The Japanese people may not be very receptive to what you say about the Oneness of Allah, His most important attributes and Muhammad (May Allah be Pleased with him) being the final Messenger of Allah. However, they will be very positive if you become active in the community and extend help wherever it may be needed.</em><br />
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<em> </em><em>This phenomenon has been especially very prevelant during the recent eqrthquake and the ensuing Tsunami and the Fukushima Nuclear Disaster."</em><br />
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Original article <a href="http://www.japanesemuslims.com/giving-dawah-during-ramadan/">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-4985155799380813382011-07-14T13:08:00.000-07:002011-07-14T13:08:10.420-07:00A Christian Minister's Conversion to Islam: Dr. Jerald DirksDr Dirks explains on the Deen Show what moved him to leave Christianity and accept Islam.<br />
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Dr. Jerald F. Dirks received his Bachelor of Arts (philosophy) from Harvard College in 1971, his Master of Divinity from Harvard Divinity School in 1974, his Master of Arts (clinical child psychology) from the University of Denver in 1976, his Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.) degree in clinical psychology from the University of Denver in 1978, and his sessions program certificate in Islamic studies from Imam Muhammad ibn Saud Islamic University in 1998. In 1969, he obtained his License to Preach from the United Methodist Church and was ordained into the Christian ministry (deaconate) by the United Methodist Church in 1972. He converted to Islam in 1993 and completed the ‘Umrah and Hajj in 1999.<br />
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Dr Dirks Facebook page is <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=146073402957">here</a> and profile and life story is <a href="http://www.welcome-back.org/profile/dirks1.shtml">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-5227747498496772642011-07-14T10:18:00.000-07:002011-07-14T10:18:01.958-07:00American University Professor Converted to Islam<object height="367" width="450"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ay2jkJQ7Avk?version=3&hl=en_GB"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ay2jkJQ7Avk?version=3&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="450" height="367" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"></embed></object>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-41907850813600699432011-07-04T11:08:00.000-07:002011-07-04T11:08:52.847-07:00Why Justin from Texas accepted IslamJustin from Texas, USA explains to Eddie of the Deen Show why he and his wife became Muslims.<br />
Some of the messages that stood out for me were:<br />
<ul><li>No matter what your situation, you will find true peace in Islam</li>
<li>If you are sincere in your search for the truth you will find Islam</li>
<li>Islam is nothing new, but actually consistent with what Adam, Moses, Jesus (peace be upon all of them) beleiveed before Muhammad (peace be upon him)</li>
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<div align="left"><b><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: blue;">Four Principles of Dawah</span></span></b></div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: blue;"></span></span><br />
<div align="left"></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Earlier this year, I asked a local Imam advice about dawah. He replied, "Sincerity. Intention. Tension. Manners. First, you must be sincere. Your intentions and actions must be only for the sake of God. Expect tension. Have manners."</span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
</strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: blue; font-family: inherit;"><strong>1. Sincerity</strong></span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"Say, Verily my prayer, my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for God, the Lord of the Worlds." (Qur'an 6:162).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">All our actions should be acts of worship. Sincerity ensures that your intentions and actions are only for the sake of God. Our actions must not be tainted by our own desires.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">The work you're doing doesn't have worldly returns. Don't expect any worldly returns. If you always expect things and are waiting for things, you'll never get work done. You will never the get recognition you deserve. All actions are only to gain pleasure from God.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">By ensuring our intentions are purely for God, we free ourselves from expectations of worldly rewards. We don't expect acknowledgement, wealth, anything. We are sacrificing our time purely for the religion without expectations.</span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"[Do not follow] the lust (of thy heart), for it will mislead thee from the Path of God." (Qur'an 38:26).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Race to do good deeds. Friendly competition benefits everyone. Ultimately, we are on the same side. This attitude helps lessen stress and dangerous levels of competition. Sometimes, you will work with people you neither trust nor admire.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">A sincere Muslim does not deny anything that is known by necessity to be part of Islam. We cannot make something Halal that is Haram, or something Haram that is Halal. Sincerely repent after committing sins and avoid telling others to avoid setting a bad example. Sincere Muslims practice their religion and educate themselves.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Sincerity requires consistent actions around others and when alone. Respect and good-manners toward others should be sincere. We must be sincere toward everyone. Sincere Muslims should care about current problems and issues within the entire community. Islam is the true, universal religion of our Creator. God is All-Hearing, All-Knowing, All-Aware.</span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
</strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: blue; font-family: inherit;"><strong>2. Intention.</strong></span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
</strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Prophet Mohammed <img border="0" height="13" src="http://www.islamfortoday.com/_borders/saws.gif" width="15" /> said: "Actions are only by intention, and every man shall only have what he intended." (Al-Bukhari and Muslim). Actions begin with an intention.</span></div><div align="left"><br />
<span style="color: black;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Intention gives you direction. Intention also allows you to quantify your actions. Many new Muslims want to help but have no idea where to start. State your intentions in clear terms. Set deadlines when possible.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Intentions guide actions. What actions do you need to take? What are your strengths and weaknesses? What sacrifices will you need to make? Time. Economic. Emotional.</span></div><div align="left"><br />
<span style="color: black;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Always, check your intentions. You may need to modify them. Be flexible. Check your intentions for sincerity. First things first. Prioritize. Learn to think in terms of one year, five years, and fifteen years from now.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Educate yourself. You can only teach up to what you know. No more and no less.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Consider whom you befriend. People want you to follow them. Do not blindly follow people. You may never fully trust the people you follow and/or lead. Know when to lead and when to follow.</span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"To each is a goal to which God turns him; then strive together (as in a race) towards all that is good. Wheresoever ye are, God will bring you together. For God Hath power over all things." (Qur'an 2:148).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Race to do good deeds. Set your intentions. People with similar interests will miraculously enter your life. When you take a step toward God, He will come running toward you.</span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"Invite (all) to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious..." (Qur'an 16:124).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Analyze people and situations. Consider current knowledge, background, customs, and culture. Avoid using expressions and vocabulary unfamiliar to non-Muslims. Use little Arabic at first.</span></div><div align="left"><br />
<span style="color: black;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Begin by teaching the basics. Begin with Tawheed. Tawheed is the "Unification of Lordship, of Worship, and of His Names and Attributes." Don't confuse people. Explain what Tawheed means. We can't isolate ourselves from non-Latino Muslims and non-Muslims.</span></div><div align="left"><br />
<span style="color: black;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">The three fundamental concepts of Islam are Tawheed, Prophethood, and Day of Judgment. Explain the Pillars of Faith. Explain the Pillars of Islam. Explain common misconceptions about Islam. People think you're a terrorist. Maybe.</span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
</strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: blue; font-family: inherit;"><strong>3. Tension.</strong></span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"How many of the prophets fought (in God's way), and with them (fought) large bands of godly men? But they never lost heart if they met with disaster in God's way, nor did they weaken (in will) nor give in. And God loves those who are firm and steadfast." (Qur'an 3:146).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Anyone who gives dawah will experience tension. You will be criticized. The more you do, the more criticism you will get. You will need to give advice, suggestions, and ask questions.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Expect tests and trials. Your patience will be tested. You will make mistakes. Learn from your mistakes. Don't give up. Read your tension. Tension often speaks to you.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Perform an action then leave the results in the hands of God. You can't control everything. God knows best. Patience. Everyone is busy; all the time. Only God knows what's in your heart.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Be committed. Make things happen. Next time, you'll get more volunteers. Remind people. We forget. Time is the most valuable asset you can give. People are your most valuable asset.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Prophet Mohammed <img border="0" height="13" src="http://www.islamfortoday.com/_borders/saws.gif" width="15" /> would assign Muslims jobs according to their ability. We will not all be scholars, administrators, or heroes. Do your best with what is available.</span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"And in no wise covet those things in which God Hath bestowed His gifts more freely on some of you than on others." (Qur'an 4:32).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Don't be a hypocrite. You will be called a hypocrite. Don't burn bridges. You will burn bridges. Consequences come from our behavior. Don't be afraid to make decisions. Get advice and ask questions when appropriate. Listen.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">We're on the same side. Seek to empower people rather than making them your slaves. The more you help others, the more they can do for themselves and others. That's freedom for everyone. Seek long-term friendships.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Everyone is a human with feelings and needs. Everyone thinks they are right. Watch your ego. Know when to let go of your pride.</span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
<span style="color: black;"></span></strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: blue; font-family: inherit;"><strong>4. Manners.</strong></span></div><div align="left"><strong><br />
</strong></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Abd Allah ibn 'Amr said, "Prophet Mohammed of God, upon him be peace, was never obscene or coarse. Rather, he used to tell us that the best among us were those with the best manners." (Bukhari).</span><br />
</div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">I have emphasized manners throughout the other points.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">Bad morals destroy society. People will avoid and humiliate you. No one will like your personality. Avoid people who have bad manners.</span></div><blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">"Do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbors who are of kin, neighbors who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (ye meet), and what your right hands possess." (Qur'an 4:36).</span></div></blockquote><div align="left"><span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">People who follow the example of prophet Mohammed <img border="0" height="13" src="http://www.islamfortoday.com/_borders/saws.gif" width="15" /> attract people. Be a role model. Be wise. Be patient. Be truthful. Be fair. Be courageous. Be considerate. Be just. Be generous. Be compassionate. Be forgiving. Be respectful.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: black;"><br />
</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color: blue; font-family: inherit;"><strong>May God guide us all. Surely, God is the best guide.</strong></span></div>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-53460632459076127582011-06-24T07:11:00.000-07:002011-06-24T07:11:20.089-07:00The Deen Show: Rapper Accepts IslamA Interview with a former Jamaican Hip hop star who was also a former Christian who accepted Islam. In this video Muslim Belal shares his story of how he came to Islam.<br />
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Brother Muslim Belal mentions a book her read by Harun Yahya called "The Truth Of The Life Of This World", you can download and read the book <a href="http://www.harunyahya.com/truth.php">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-49273088213190619892011-06-24T07:07:00.000-07:002011-06-24T07:07:17.704-07:00Misbah Institute Event: The Practice and Spirit of Ramadan<div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: inherit;">The Misbah Institute is hosting an event called "<span lang="EN-US">The Practice and Spirit of Ramadan." This is a short<span lang="EN-US"> talk by Shaykh Muhammad Yazdani on the most effective way for New Muslims to benefit from Ramadan, including key rulings and how to attain a spiritual month of fasting.</span></span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Details:</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Friday 1<sup>st</sup> July, 6:45 - 9:00 pm</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Muslim World League (Goodge Street Mosque)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: inherit;">46 Goodge Street, London, W1T 4LU (</span><a href="http://www.streetmap.co.uk/map.srf?X=529461&Y=181708&A=Y&Z=110"><span style="font-family: inherit;">map</span></a><span style="font-family: inherit;">)</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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<div></div><strong>12 Characteristics of an Effective Da'ee </strong><br />
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When Muslims talk about Islamic Da'wah, or inviting people to the way of Islam, they are basically talking about three different stages of promoting Islam. The first (of three) is inviting people to Islam by conveying the message. That is only one stage, which is followed by teaching Islam to the people who accept the message. And the third stage is actually helping people to implement Islam in their lives. So when I talk about da'wah in this post, I am referring to all three of these stages collectively, and not only the first (as many people perceive.) Therefore da'wah is not directed only to non-Muslims but to Muslims as well, at various levels of knowledge and iman.<br />
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<div></div>Now basically there are three pillars of da'wah. Just like there are pillars of Islam (5), pillars of iman (6), and pillars of salaat (I think there are 4?), there are pillars of da'wah, and they are three (3). This almost seems like a common sense breakdown, but is useful when trying to understand and analyze the concept of da'wah and methods of it. The three pillars of da'wah are first, the caller to Islaam, or the da'ee. The second pillar is the audience of the message, the people who are being called to Islam. And the third pillar is the message itself, what the da'ee is callign to--Islam. Although I'm reluctant to use this analogy, the pillars of da'wah can be likened to sales, where there exists a salesman, a buyer, and a product being sold. It's a useful analogy, but I don't like thinking of Islam as being literally 'sold,' especially as salesmen (analogous to the da'ees) are often considered to be liars in this culture. Or maybe it's just that I have a bad experience with salesmen. Anyway, these are the three essential pillars of da'wah.<br />
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<div></div>Now, as was mentioned above, the da'ee is the person who is basically calling people to Islam, conveying the message, and trying to teach the people and help them to apply islam. The first da'ee or messenger was Nuh (i.e., Noah, pbuh), and the first da'ee in our ummah was Muhammad, saaws. Because the da'ee is calling to Allah SWT, he is in the highest and most honorable role, and is promised a great reward. But in order to be an effective da'ee, there are essential characteristics, even required attributes which a person must possess--they have been summarized here into 12, the 12 characteristics (or requirements) of an effective da'ee.<br />
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<div></div><strong>1. Iman</strong> - The first essential characteristic mentioned is to have a strong faith or belief in what the da'ee is calling to, which is Islam.<br />
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<div></div><strong>2. Good Relationship with Allah</strong> - The second characteristic is to have a good relationship with the One to whom the da'ee is calling, Allah SWT. This characteristic can be broken down into two parts: sincerity, and love.<br />
<ul><li>Ikhlaas means sincerity, and the da'ee must be pure in his intentions. He should be worshiping Allah SWT with sincerity and purity, and not be maintaing what could be called merely a superficial relationship. It should be sincere.</li>
<li>Love for Allah SWT is the second part, and a da'ee should love Allah SWt in his heart in order to be an effective da'ee or even a strong Muslim. There are ways to cultivate love for Allah SWT which can be reviewed in my post entitled Loving Allah.</li>
</ul><strong>3. Knowledge</strong> - A person calling to Islam should also have strong, solid knowledge of what he is calling to, which means the da'ee should know Islam, and also know why Islam is better than any alternative paths.<br />
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<div></div><strong>4. Application</strong> - The da'ee must also implement what he calls for, as it is not appropriate to call people to do what he himself cannot apply in his own life. Sometimes this is called 'practicing what you preach.' It is very important for the da'ee to implement Islam in his own life before calling others to it.<br />
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<div></div><strong>5. Awareness</strong> - The da'ee should have awareness of basically three principles:<br />
<ul><li>Awareness of the reality of da'wah in his lifetime and place, such that he knows the means of giving da'wah in his particular circumstances and time. </li>
<li>Awareness of the reality of the condition of the people he is calling to Islam, such that he understands their experience and their options.</li>
<li>Awareness of his personal capabilities, as a person cannot give da'wah beyond his capabilities so he should be aware of his own limits.</li>
</ul><strong>6. Wisdom -</strong> Wisdom in the way of da'wah means that a da'ee can give the message gradually, at the level which people are able to understand. Giving them more information than they can grasp will lead to more confusion and fitnah, so it is better to give people only what they are capable of understanding. We can see of course that the message of Islam was delivered gradually, for over two decades, as the people were able to progress in their understanding and iman.<br />
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<div></div><strong>7. Good Manners</strong> - While good manners attract people, poor manners repel them, and manners attract people much more than speech, so it is essential that the da'ee has good manners. The most important of the good manners is patience, as Muhammad (saaws) was advised to have patience as the messengers before him had patience.<br />
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<div></div><strong>8. Giving Muslims the Benefit of the Doubt</strong> - The da'ee should give the Muslims the benefit of the doubt, and respect, because if he doesn't, people will always have the worst interpretation of a person's actions. The da'ee needs to show respect so that people will open their hearts.<br />
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<div></div><strong>9. Covering the Faults</strong> <strong>of People</strong> - When a doctor treats a patient, there is a strict rule of confidentiality, which is essential for a patient to be able to trust his physician. He needs to trust that the doctor will not reveal the person's shortcomings and weaknesses to others. Similarly, the da'ee should cover people's shortcomings so that they are able to trust him, not fearing that he will reveal their flaws to their friends or community.<br />
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<div></div><strong>10. Mixing and Isolating Appropriately</strong> - This characteristic means that the da'ee mixes with the people when it is best to mix with them, which is when he can help them. But at the same time, it means he refrains from mixing with them, or isolates himself, when mixing with them would be harmful. It is good to mix with the people, but isolation is preferred if the mixing would allow the group to bring down the da'ee.<br />
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<div></div><strong>11. Giving Due Respect</strong> - This implies that the da'ee gives everyone the respect which is due to their position, which means respect the scholars, the elderly, and people who have been given authority. This way the disrespect will not block the haqq from reaching their minds. We have an example of this behavior in the Prophet (saaws) who at the conquest of Mecca said that anyone inside the Haram or staying in their homes would be safe, as well as anyone staying in the House of Abu Sufyan--this showed respect to Abu Sufyan.<br />
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<div></div><strong>12. Cooperating with other Da'ees</strong> - This final characteristic is that the da'ee should cooperate with others who are calling to Islam (plural is du'aat by the way) and this is because they are working for the same objective, and working for the same ilaah. So they should help each other, give each other advice, and make consultation, instead of competing and trying to defeat each other.<br />
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<div></div>Now it's important to note that just because a person might not have all of these characteristics doesn't mean he cannot be a da'ee, it just means that he won't be as effective, and perhaps that he is not giving da'wah correctly. So what a da'ee should do if he finds himself lacking in any of these attributes, is to improve himself. If he has bad manners, he should improve his manners. If he lacks knowledge, he should acquire knowledge. And if he has been accusing Muslims instead of covering their faults then he should try to give them the benefit of the doubt.<br />
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<div></div>To give da'wah is to be on the sabeel or way of the Prophet Muhammad (saaws), as Allah SWT says in the Qur'an<br />
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<div></div><i>Say, "This is my way; I invite to Allah with insight, I and those who follow me. And exalted is Allah ; and I am not of those who associate others with Him." (12:108) </i><br />
<div></div></i>So May Allah make us among those who follow this Sunnah of our beloved Prophet (saaws) and increase in those attributes where we are weak.<br />
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<div></div>This post is based on my notes from a class with the imam on da'wah, but the commentary is pretty much my own words--so please forgive me for any mistakes as they are my own, while anything good is from Allah SWT and all praise is for Him.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-19114424404748728002011-03-30T10:15:00.000-07:002011-03-30T10:26:33.916-07:00How Clean is Your Heart?Yahya Ibrahim writes for Muslim Matters about the need for us to be more thoughtful in the way we deal with other Muslim's, taking care not to judge and dismiss anothers practise of Islam or be bullish in our approach to dawah: <br /><br /><em>"A young Muslim, who does not wear hijab, for instance, may be made to feel uncomfortable while attending an Islamic lecture or course. Condescending looks, snide smirks, rolled eyes, bullish “dawa” target her.<br /><br />A young brother, never taught to pray properly at home, is scolded for “not following the Sunnah.”<br /><br />A new Muslim is kissed and hugged after declaring his testimony of Faith. Years later, he struggles to find a family to accept his genuine interest in their daughter.<br /><br />A community member delivers a Jum’ah Khutbah at a local mosque. He, for whatever reason misspoke, as a consequence the whole masjid is deemed a place of heresy and Bidah.<br /><br />It happens all the time in our community. Not just to our community, but rather, within our domain of action and authority. In our Islamic Societies, MSAs, Musallah prayer halls, Islamic camps, and public lectures, Muslims at times make other Muslims feel insignificant and marginalised. At times, we can, through our insensitivity and bigotry, make other Muslims feel uncomfortable, unwelcome and unloved.<br /><br />We, individually and collectively, judge people all the time. We do so, at times, as subtly and reflexively as a wave of our hand to shoo away an obnoxious fly.<br /><br />Simply put, we break the golden rule. We do not treat others the way we want to be treated. We do not love for our brothers and sisters what we love for our self.<br /><br />Why do we see in others what we fail to see in ourselves? How is it that we can overlook other person’s feelings so readily and easily? Why does it take us so long to admit to someone that we wronged them? How often do we misrepresent an occurrence or embellish a story? Why can we comment on others, and feel disheartened when we discover the same being done to us?<br /><br />The answer, simple as it is, is that our heart is not truly attached to Allah. It is veiled behind self-praise, obscured by hate and clouded with jealousy.<br /><br />The closer you draw to Allah, the more virtuous you become in your conduct with His creation. The more careful and precise you are in your dealings with Allah, the more reliable your character becomes. As a general principle – Tawheed builds character."</em><br /><br />You can read the full article <a href="http://muslimmatters.org/2011/03/14/yahya-ibrahim-un-dawah-obscuring-the-truth-with-a-repulsive-attitude/">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-79036076580825693212011-03-14T13:24:00.000-07:002011-03-14T13:27:39.246-07:00Revert Stories: Joshua EvansThis long, but immensely rewarding, talk by Brother Joshua Evans describes his journey from Christianity to Islam via the bible. Brother Joshua also goes onto to discuss the importance of dawah and the need for the beautiful message of Islam to be spread to as many people as possible.<br /><br /><br /><object width="450" height="283"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/IYMKQKSV0bY?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/IYMKQKSV0bY?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="450" height="283"></embed></object>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-20191191160127679352011-03-14T13:19:00.000-07:002011-03-14T13:23:30.505-07:00Lowlier Than Thou – Naseeha tips from Ibn RajabMuslim Matters has an article entitled "Lowlier Than Thou – Naseeha tips from Ibn Rajab" which highlights the need to look at the intention behind naseeha, or advice. The Ibn Rajab in question is Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali (rahimuhullah) who wrote “The Difference Between Naseeha and Ta’eer”. The article by Saqib Saab states:<br /><br /><em>Always give Naseeha sincerely. From the get go, you want to have clear intent that the reason why you’re advising this person is to please Allah (SWT) and find the truth of the issue at hand. Naseeha is not about who’s right and who’s wrong, or if either side is better or “holier” than the other. Both the giver and receiver should be striving for the truth, not to beat the other in a debate. Ibn Rajab writes:<br /><br />Even more amazing is where he (imam As Shafi’i) said, “I have never debated with someone except that I wished the truth becomes clear; regardless whether it comes from his tongue or mine”. This indicates that his intention was only that of to make the truth apparent, whether it is from himself or the from the person whom he differed with, and whoever thinks like this then there is no problem in refuting his statements by making clear his contradiction to the Sunnah, whether he is alive or dead.</em><br /><br />You can read the full article <a href="http://muslimmatters.org/2007/11/15/lowlier-than-thou-naseeha-tips-from-ibn-rajab/">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-27623467457089207072011-03-04T10:50:00.000-08:002011-03-04T10:55:14.454-08:00Blind Revert to Islam: Blind Hearts or Blind Eyes<object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q3VDnj4i_PI?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Q3VDnj4i_PI?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-19542823580331225722011-03-04T10:47:00.000-08:002011-03-04T10:50:20.174-08:00Quran on Dawah: Al Imran: 110You are the best of people raised up, for you call to all that is right and righteous and you forbid the evil, and you believe in Allah. ~Qur'an 3:110<br /><br />There is an explanataion of this verse from Tafsir Ibn Kathir <a href="http://www.qtafsir.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=503&Itemid=46">here</a>.Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4290821979851372729.post-52679094986435336452011-03-01T11:09:00.000-08:002011-03-02T23:09:50.832-08:00Muhammad Alshareef - Essential Da'wah techniques: How to give Da'wah<object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0Okb3XbxD9Q?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0Okb3XbxD9Q?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ckYnDgAqU6c?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ckYnDgAqU6c?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/kbd0tUlJbmI?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/kbd0tUlJbmI?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/K790s5cf6v4?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/K790s5cf6v4?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="349"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/70GYB3LAWt0?fs=1&hl=en_GB"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/70GYB3LAWt0?fs=1&hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="349"></embed></object>Happy Muslim Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16144849663355612169noreply@blogger.com0